"The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love,
and to let it come in"
~ Morrie Schwartz ~
August 31, 2012
September 03, 2011
July 24, 2011
love quote
"If you love someone you say it, You say it right then, out loud, Or the moment just passes you by."
~ My Best Friend's Wedding (movie)
~ My Best Friend's Wedding (movie)
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May 12, 2011
LoVe Quote
~Ursula K. LeGuin~
Love doesn't just sit there like a stone;it has to be made -
like bread,
remade all the time,
made new.
Credit to : psychologythings's image
April 13, 2011
it takes two - seduction
It Takes 2, It Takes 2, Me & You
It Takes 2 To Make A Thing Go Right
It Takes 2 To Make It Out Of Sight
From The Start It's Plain To See
You're Suffering From A Serious Broken Heart,
You Know That It's A Shame
But I'm Here To Ease Your Pain
There's No Need For You To Feel So All Alone
When You And I Could Seriously
Be A SureEnough Happening Thing
Do You Know That
It Takes 2 To Make A Thing Go Right
It Takes 2 To Make It Out Of Sight
I Can See It In Your Eyes
You Feel The Same Way I Feel About You
Some Call It Chemistry
I Call It You Should Be With Me
'Cause I Know Together We Can Really Turn
This Mother Out
In My Mind There Is No Doubt
That One & One Equals Me & You
Don't You Know That It Takes 2
Two To Make It Right
I Don't Believe In Fairy Tales
But I Believe Some Things Were Meant To Be
Why Should We Be Alone
When We Could Have Each Other's Arms To Hold
I Know Together We Could Really Turn
This Mother Out
In My Mind There Is No Doubt
That One & One Equals Me & You
Don't You Know That It Takes 2
It Takes 2 To Make A Thing Go Right
It Takes 2 To Make It Out Of Sight
From The Start It's Plain To See
You're Suffering From A Serious Broken Heart,
You Know That It's A Shame
But I'm Here To Ease Your Pain
There's No Need For You To Feel So All Alone
When You And I Could Seriously
Be A SureEnough Happening Thing
Do You Know That
It Takes 2 To Make A Thing Go Right
It Takes 2 To Make It Out Of Sight
I Can See It In Your Eyes
You Feel The Same Way I Feel About You
Some Call It Chemistry
I Call It You Should Be With Me
'Cause I Know Together We Can Really Turn
This Mother Out
In My Mind There Is No Doubt
That One & One Equals Me & You
Don't You Know That It Takes 2
Two To Make It Right
I Don't Believe In Fairy Tales
But I Believe Some Things Were Meant To Be
Why Should We Be Alone
When We Could Have Each Other's Arms To Hold
I Know Together We Could Really Turn
This Mother Out
In My Mind There Is No Doubt
That One & One Equals Me & You
Don't You Know That It Takes 2
December 01, 2010
How to Ignore Annoying People
- Get away and stay away. If an annoying person is in your space, remove yourself as quickly as possible. If the person annoying you is a stranger, you have no obligations for response.
- Avoid discussions. If you work with an annoying person, use email rather than meetings or personal discussions to communicate.
- Use space and distance to focus your thoughts. If you are in an office meeting, and an annoying person just cannot cease uninteresting conversation, excuse yourself and bolt for a restroom. Once inside, breathe deeply, and think of something funny before you
return to the meeting. - Stay in control of any conversation. If an annoying person that you know or work with draws you in to unavoidable conversation, feign confusion, wait for the clarification, and then thank the person before you exit quickly.
- Remain patient and professional. If the annoying person in your life is a co-worker, do not complain to other co-workers. Pretend the annoyance does not exist.
- Stay focused on what you want to accomplish in life. Discipline your thoughts and direct them toward things that benefit you. Do not waste your time and energy on superfluous or imaginary dialogue with an annoying person.
- Use you imagination to your benefit. Imagine that the annoying person is harmless and clueless. Realize that this person will not be in your life forever.
Read more: How to Ignore Annoying People | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_2046294_ignore-annoying-people.html#ixzz17FXBnxun
July 13, 2010
How to Detect Lies
Become a Lie Detector
Warning: sometimes ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.
Introduction to Detecting Lies:
The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used by police and security experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions.
Signs of Deception:
Body Language of Lies:
• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.
• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.
• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.
Emotional Gestures & Contradiction
• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.
• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.
• Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”
• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.
Also see our article on micro expressions & lying.
Interactions and Reactions
• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.
• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.
• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.
Verbal Context and Content
• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”
•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it”
• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.
• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.
• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.
• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other
words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.
• The use of distancing language.
Body Language
Other signs of a lie:
• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject.
• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.
Final Notes:
Obviously, just because someone exhibits one or more of these signs does not make them a liar. The above behaviors should be compared to a persons base (normal) behavior whenever possible.
Most lie detecting experts agree that a combination of body language and other cues must be used to make an educated guess on whether someone is telling the truth or a lie.
Warning: sometimes ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.
Introduction to Detecting Lies:
The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used by police and security experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions.
Signs of Deception:
Body Language of Lies:
• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.
• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.
• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.
Emotional Gestures & Contradiction
• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.
• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.
• Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”
• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.
Also see our article on micro expressions & lying.
Interactions and Reactions
• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.
• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.
• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.
Verbal Context and Content
• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”
•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it”
• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.
• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.
• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.
• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other
words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.
• The use of distancing language.
Body Language
Other signs of a lie:
• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject.
• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.
Final Notes:
Obviously, just because someone exhibits one or more of these signs does not make them a liar. The above behaviors should be compared to a persons base (normal) behavior whenever possible.
Most lie detecting experts agree that a combination of body language and other cues must be used to make an educated guess on whether someone is telling the truth or a lie.
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