Here are some tips to get rid of the old ball and chainBy: Shawn Croft
10. Break it off -- once and for all
It all begins with how you end things. If you break up only to get back together a week later, then you are setting a dangerous precedence. If you want out, be a man and end it. But you are truly a man if you resist the temptation of going back to her over and over again, unless of course, you change your mind and want to get her back for good.
9. Explain to her why you don't want her
Make sure that you clearly communicate to her why things are over and why you do not want to get back together. It is hard enough for a woman to get over you when she knows you no longer want her, imagine how much harder it is if she thinks that there's a chance. Tell it like it is: the truth hurts, but hey, no pain no gain.
8. Do not flirt with her
Same idea. Girls already feel that all men want them; okay, maybe not all, but most actually do. So why add fuel to the fire by giving her a look that would make icebergs melt? Keep your distance and don't even allow yourself to run into her, unless of course you
7. Date someone else
Don't get involved with someone else for the sake of dating, especially if you are sick of relationships as a whole and not particularly your ex. But if you want her to get the idea, you could always line up someone else to take your mind off things.
6. Have your new girl call your ex
Ruthless? Yes. Effective? Definitely. Have your new flame contact your old girlfriend. Have her ask about sexual preferences or what gifts she should get you. Of course, if your new girl would do this, then you have to ask yourself some questions. But hey, who cares?
If she still doesn't get it, pull out the big guns
5. Don't send mixed signals
If you do not want to be with her, then say so -- loud and clear. The last thing the poor girl needs is you wavering back and forth and toying with her emotions. Make sure that your friends know what page you are on as well; they should know in order to avoid mistakes. Loose lips sink ships.
4. Don't sleep with her
I cannot stress this one enough. So many men ask me, How can I tell her to leave me alone? but then add the minor detail, yeah so after we had sex... Hello! This is to be avoided at all costs. Resist the urge. Get over the temptation. Take a cold shower.
3. Show total disrespect for her
I hate offering this piece of advice, but while I would not wish any man to show any form of disrespect to any woman, sometimes, we might be pushed to the point of no return and say things like, your daddy should have stained the sheets, and not society.
2. Make it clear you are not playing hard to get
You know what? This is a lost cause because women get more interested the less you throw yourself at them. The more you do all of these previous advice, the more women are drawn to the challenge. Play hard to get and you will have the upper hand. This said, doing these 8 aforementioned tips could land you in more trouble. Use them at your discretion. But this next one will surely do the trick.
1. Sleep with her friends or even better, her sister
This one might put a bounty on your head, but I can almost guarantee it will resolve your situation, even if it creates another one.
It all begins with how you end things. If you break up only to get back together a week later, then you are setting a dangerous precedence. If you want out, be a man and end it. But you are truly a man if you resist the temptation of going back to her over and over again, unless of course, you change your mind and want to get her back for good.
9. Explain to her why you don't want her
Make sure that you clearly communicate to her why things are over and why you do not want to get back together. It is hard enough for a woman to get over you when she knows you no longer want her, imagine how much harder it is if she thinks that there's a chance. Tell it like it is: the truth hurts, but hey, no pain no gain.
8. Do not flirt with her
Same idea. Girls already feel that all men want them; okay, maybe not all, but most actually do. So why add fuel to the fire by giving her a look that would make icebergs melt? Keep your distance and don't even allow yourself to run into her, unless of course you
7. Date someone else
Don't get involved with someone else for the sake of dating, especially if you are sick of relationships as a whole and not particularly your ex. But if you want her to get the idea, you could always line up someone else to take your mind off things.
6. Have your new girl call your ex
Ruthless? Yes. Effective? Definitely. Have your new flame contact your old girlfriend. Have her ask about sexual preferences or what gifts she should get you. Of course, if your new girl would do this, then you have to ask yourself some questions. But hey, who cares?
If she still doesn't get it, pull out the big guns
5. Don't send mixed signals
If you do not want to be with her, then say so -- loud and clear. The last thing the poor girl needs is you wavering back and forth and toying with her emotions. Make sure that your friends know what page you are on as well; they should know in order to avoid mistakes. Loose lips sink ships.
4. Don't sleep with her
I cannot stress this one enough. So many men ask me, How can I tell her to leave me alone? but then add the minor detail, yeah so after we had sex... Hello! This is to be avoided at all costs. Resist the urge. Get over the temptation. Take a cold shower.
3. Show total disrespect for her
I hate offering this piece of advice, but while I would not wish any man to show any form of disrespect to any woman, sometimes, we might be pushed to the point of no return and say things like, your daddy should have stained the sheets, and not society.
2. Make it clear you are not playing hard to get
You know what? This is a lost cause because women get more interested the less you throw yourself at them. The more you do all of these previous advice, the more women are drawn to the challenge. Play hard to get and you will have the upper hand. This said, doing these 8 aforementioned tips could land you in more trouble. Use them at your discretion. But this next one will surely do the trick.
1. Sleep with her friends or even better, her sister
This one might put a bounty on your head, but I can almost guarantee it will resolve your situation, even if it creates another one.
